Working on Training Become a Ten-Step Male Leader – I wanted to give Self-Confidence an important place. You already know, WITHOUT confidence, we can not talk about Seduction. WITHOUT confidence, we can not talk about personal development.
Here are 20 quick and practical ways to improve your self-confidence:
Think of a person who trusts and act, talk and walk like him or her. May his ways and behavior be models for you. If it works for them, it will work for you.
Smile more. That does not mean that you have to put a big smug smile on your face! But smile when you walk in the street, when you meet people and in general ways make your happiness even if it’s not what you feel.
Learn from the past Never belittle yourself about the mistakes of the past. It’s over, it’s old history; you can not go back on it. By cons you can learn from it and especially do better next time.
Buy new clothes , take care of your hairstyle, get ready for your new “me”. You will only feel better and it will boost your ego.
Are you prepared for all situations? Are you ready enough to face any challenge that arises in your life? Are you ready for this or that meeting, for this presentation in front of your colleagues or your customers, for this interview that you had so much trouble getting to meet someone for the first time, who knows, maybe to be the love of your life? If this is not the case, make sure that changes.
Play on your strengths. You must know what you are good at and make sure to expose yourself to opportunities, to all opportunities corresponding to these strengths, because you will necessarily appreciate that it can only strengthen your self-confidence.
Improve your weaknesses. Know how to identify and recognize your weaknesses and put in place a plan to improve them over time.
Learn to say NO to people. Do not be afraid, you do not have to be afraid of anything. Just watch their reaction on their face after saying no to them for the first time and there will be no turning back, whether they like it or not.
Be positive. Look at the “I can do” side of things instead of getting stuck on the “I can not”. You have already accomplished so much in your life and you will accomplish many more in the future.
Take responsibility for your thoughts at every moment. What is a thought? It’s just a question you ask yourself and thought is the answer. If you have negative thoughts, it is because you are asking negative questions. Change the questions you ask yourself to be more positive.
Whenever you feel that a negative thought is invading you, STOP THINKING, and say that it is really very important in the grand universal scheme of things. Most of the time it is not, but many people in life give importance to these little things!
Do you let the words spoken by others affect you? Do you attach importance to what they think of you? Remember that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. The problem is not what they tell you but what you say to yourself once they have finished talking, that’s where the bottom hurts. Change the way you think.
Make a list of the words you use on a constant basis when you feel lower than earth or just upset. People use different words to mean the same thing and it all depends on the intensity of each of his words and the effect they have on your confidence. Instead of saying “it makes me mad about this or that thing,” say, “I’m a little upset.” Make a list of alternate words for each of the words you no longer want to use. Believe my experience, you will be blown away by the result.
At the end of each day, make a list of things that you have achieved that you can be proud of.
Enjoy what you have and be grateful for your life right now. Who do you Love? Who loves you? Who have you already helped?
Every morning while taking a shower, replay the events of the day as if they had already happened and they were so many successes. View all the appointments you have had, all the people you have spoken to and all the financial benefits they have brought you. Visualize your successes and your confidence will do the same.
Improve your body language. The way you move your body has a massive impact on your level of self-confidence. Move your body with confidence, head up, shoulders back and as if you were going to a very important place. Do you feel that your confidence in you is at its lowest? Change your body language.
From the gesture is born the emotion. As if you were 17 years old, be sure to move constantly. This will create real energy and promote circulation of blood in your body, so you will feel much better and above all more confident.
Learn to boast. Yes, you heard me right! Talk about your accomplishments and achievements more than you are doing now.
And finally, “we only have one life”, so every time you feel down, just ask yourself if in 10 or 20 years, what you’re worried about will finally have the less important?